Protect Yourself

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In India, traffic moves on the left side of the road (at least that's the rule), so it's best that pedestrians walk on the right side of the road, so they can see oncoming traffic and are not constantly having to look over their shoulder to see what's coming from behind. Furthermore, following on from yesterday's thought on 'Reckless Riders,' they would be more easily avoidable if they came from ahead of us than if they came from behind.

The same is true of life as well - we can more easily protect ourselves from abusive people if we're on our guard, than if we put ourselves in vulnerable situations. We were not meant to be hurt or abused and the least we can do is protect ourselves.

While it may not be possible to completely avoid such people in our lives, we can do our best to minimise the effects they have on us. As Martin Luther said, "You cannot keep birds from flying over your head but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair."

Michael Collins
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